Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Memoir



In my life I have had a lot of role models; they have been mostly famous people that I see on TV or on the internet. But as I grew older and matured, I soon realized that more than just famous people can be role models. One of my role models is my brother.
My brother and I are similar in a lot of things. We both grew up in the same house under the care of a good father and a very supportive mother who love us very much. My brother is six years older than me, but he never makes me feel the difference of age between us, and he also never says anything to hurt me or make me upset_from our childhood until we grew up and become young adults. My role model was always encouraging me in my life and I always took his advice after the advice of my parents. He also gave me support until now from all the sides. We were always sharing the good and the bad things as we know this life is full of the good and the bad aspects no matter the difference in age. He always wanted me to feel I’m older, and treated age as if it weren't big deal. He decided to help others who might have problems, which is why I took him as a role model, even though there are a lot of people worth taking them as a role model, such as: parents, friends, relatives, teachers, athletes, artists, comedians, kings, and even students.
Everyone in this life can have a role model. Some people choose their families, friends, relatives, and sometimes they can be athletes or teachers. To have a role model is nice, easy and one of the most important things in the universe. Every person needs a role model to take as a mentor to ask question of, and to look at his or her behaviors to take learn from their experience. My role model is one of the closest people to my heart and I’m proud of him because he has shown me that I was right when I chose him instead others.
My brother was always helped me a lot by playing soccer with me in the same team. He was always the first one who asked me about my exercise. He also was helping me inside the field or outside it. When we finished our exercise we would go together to our home, then he would advice me and encourage me and correcting me my mistakes. When he finished his exercise he would stop to watch me train and look at my mistakes to correct it for me. Moreover, he would always ask his friends who played in the same position as me to talk to me and to tell me what I should do in some cases. He would always encouraging me when our team would lose our matches. I always remembering him when he told me we don't have to get mad about the past, and we don't have to give up, we have to look to the future. Those kind of advice helped me a lot when I grow up in my life.
My role model is really a symbol of sacrifice, and whatever I say about him, I can’t describe my emotions of love and tenderness for him. Moreover, finding someone to take care of you even in the difficult moments is something exceptional in these times. He was someone never complained about the troubles that he faced when he took care of our business, never complained when I was sleeping and would never mind about anything about me in complete seriousness, my brother has been an integral part of my life, because he dedicated his life me and for to our family. After my father passed away, we decided to give my brother a lot of responsibility, he took it and he never ever gave us any complaints, and he never ever refused us any request_small or big. On the contrary, he always asked us if we needed something else. Therefore, he didn’t want to get married; just for us, he said until we get our education and make our families, he would still pay our tuition fees, and he still does until now.
In conclusion, I wish that everybody has a good role model, which he encourage you to achieve you dreams, no matter how popular they are. 

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